V’s LIFE EXTENDERS

“True friends are always together in spirit. ”
― L.M. Montgomery

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
― C. JoyBell C.

Since super festive ang mood ko ngayon, might as well blog about it. Oh sa quotes pa lang alam niyo na ano ang ibig kong sabihin.. My friends are MY LIFE EXTENDERS.

To start maalala ko nung kabataan ko di talaga ako friendly ever! Mga friendships ko lang are my classmates sa school.. Hindi ako congenial and extrovert.. Kumbaga walang pakialam sa ibang tao! Anti-social and introvert talaga.. Well since the ony thing constant in this world is change so ako naki change na rin.. Eventually when I reached HS dun na ako naging friendly (nagdadalaga na kasi).. pero the transformation was not rapid but gradual. Starters yung exposure ko sa mga extra curricular eklaver sa school at nasama sa school org and doon nabuo yung CENTRALIAN BARKADAHAN. Doon nagkaroon ako ng self esteem boost kasi nga akalain mo we came from different year levels pero super swak and parang may solid harmony kami. Hindi lang kami nag work in behalf for our alma mater but for ourselves rin and gosh ang tagal na namin friendships!!! To count 15 years more or less! Kasing edad na ng isang nagdadalaga ang aming friendship! These are the few people who know me the most from the innermost bone marrow! Naku wala na akong matago sa mga taong toh kaloka! We have been through ups and downs pero naman we have managed to pull through! Survival of the fittest ang ganap namin. Though di na kami ganoon lumalabas after HS but we make time for each other as possible. And what we have in common na super enjoy namin?? MAG PARTY!! haha! Well that is lumafang, sumayaw at magpakalasing at magpaka emo together!! Super love ko sila.. Ano nalang yung mga iyakan, tawanan, asaran, emote, kalasingan moments to share namin! Kung i-sshare ko pa lahat mga ganap namin throughout the years, di na ako matatapos! And to add, isa sa mga saddest moment ng barkadahan is when we lost one of our dear friend na si Marjorie. She died through an unforeseen-brutal circumstance. Naku naiyak na ako😦 pero alam ko naman nasa heaven siya ngayon all happy partying ang cooking! She will always be loved and remembered by us! Friends come and go pero they remain in our hearts forever! Alam ko di niya bet mag emo kami, So para ma sight niyo sila eto na…

MY CENTRALIAN BARKADAHAN!

Top Left: Marlon, Jeff, Ding, Aissa, Marjorie, Yong and Felix are my BFF’s Boyfies

Down Left: Choco and Mating, V, BFF Yoyen and Yukie

*My Last moment to see, talk and be with Marjorie here before ako nag migratory birds to Kuwait! I miss you Marj! :(*

Eto kami nung nagdadalaga at nagbibinata! Saya lang! V with the gang and the boys!

Happy tipsy Moments with the gang! Ayan nanjan pa si Marj!

Di pa kami lasing kasi di pa kami pula! haha!

Oh ang gaganda namin lahat diba! aminin wag i-deny! wala akong chakang friendship!

Sabi ko na diba healthy living kami! Oh ayan nag endorse pa!

Di talaga halata na medyo tumathunder catz diba? parang mga HS parin kami! BTW the girl in pink si Mating yan and the one standing on my right is Jacky.. sila mga na add sa group namin! sus kung alam nyo lang gaano kami karami! parang makakabuo na kami ng isang classroom!

Here are some of our ganap all throughout the years! Oh diba naging straight, kulot, black to brown to highlights nalang ang hairerette ko, may braces pa ako until natanggal na, intact parin kami! Dami naming pics di ko na ker iupload lahat! and di masyadong halata na healthy living kami! haha! Hanggang sa dumami kami kasi join na sa grupo mga jowa ng friends so masaya! Love ko sila ng todo! bow.🙂

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“As they say you will always go back to the people who were there in the beginning..”

L to R: Lesley, Bea, V and Mae Ann

(HS Pic and after college)

oh my kindergarten to HS girlfriends! naku di ko ma explain in words ang samahan namin talaga! Imagine mo Kinder I to Senior year sila mga kasama ko araw araw! Na lost ako pano ko ikwento mga ganap namin. Our memories during grade school to HS ay full of kabaitan! haha! Yung tipong nagsusunog kilay to the max kami to be in the honor roll. And infairview from Kinder to HS nasa top 10 kami ALL THE TIME! And di exagg ang sinasabi kong ALL THE TIME! Never nagfail na di kami nasa top 10! Achievers ang peg namin since we were in the A class (first section) from Kinder to HS! From playing chinese garter, taguan, patintero, bahay bahayan, collecting stationaries to stamps, hanggang sa kilig at crush2 moments sila karamay ko! Puro lang kami tsikahan, sleep overs. lafangan, and mag beach! Sila mga Beach buddies ko! Di kasi nila hilig ang mag night life so nakakapahinga liver ko sa kanila! saya! may diverse friendships ako!🙂

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And hindi lang sila Mae, Diane and Bea ang super friends ko nung HS! Di ako ganoon ka anti-social noh! choz! Marami rin kami! Since uso naman dati diba yung kanyang kanyang grupo sa class. Pero kahit ganun man pag may mga ganap the more the merrier ang event! And after that dumami rin kami kasi mga small place lang ang DAVAO so yung friendship ni isa, friendship na ng lahat! so diba ang saya! parang halo halo espesyal na! And if na note nyo sa pics our Becky Friendships! See bata pa lang ako may calling na talaga ang pagiging bakla ko! Kahit we are in different parts of the globe as we speak and super madalang mag volt in we are still friends by heart! Alam namin yan and sorry guys if eto lang ang pics ko! 4r prints pa mga pics nung HS so eto lang yung merona ko sa hard drive ko!

“High School Memories.. So carefree”😀

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“I’ve learned one thing, and that’s to quit worrying about stupid things. You have four years to be irresponsible here, relax. Work is for people with jobs. You’ll never remember class time, but you’ll remember the time you wasted hanging out with your friends. So stay out late. Go out with your friends on a Tuesday when you have a paper due on Wednesday. Spend money you don’t have. Drink ’til sunrise. The work never ends, but college does…”Tom Petty

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THE JESCHICAHZ!

My girls.. My jesh! Wonderland kayo bakit Jeshicahz? nakuha namin toh sa isang audio ringtone way back in college.. isang kolehiyana na super konyo magsalita with the accent -ESH on every word… isa na doon yung name na Jessica.. ginawa niyang JESHICAH.. basta super Napagkatuwaan ng grupo at ayun nagsimula.. magulo ba? basta yun!

Sila na ang isa sa mga grabe ang impact sa life ko! Mga college friends ko! Naku mahiya naman si History subject sa aming mga ganap during college and after that! I may have enjoyed HS life pero for me, my college life was way more memorable, exciting and enjoyable! Grabe mega volt in lahat ang mga na experience ko during those years. I took up Nursing during college and since super stressful drilon ang course namin, sympre ano pa ba ang pwede pang stress reliever namin? GUMIMIK! haha! Actually nung junior year na ako first nassight sa mga gimikan. Sabi ko na introvert ako dati and medyo may mga nag influence lang kaya tumodo sya! walang choz! Let’s say super late bloomer ang peg ko so kaya inavail ko yung pwedeng lumabas ako sa bahay! Alam ng friendships ko how strict my mudak was before kaya best in takas ako minsan. haha! Ang mga babaeng toh talaga ang mga better halves ko in the most crucial part of V’s pagdadalaga! Sila ang witness sa halos lahat ng ka dramahan ko sa buhay! ALam mo yung nagtitigan lang kayo gets nyo na ang mga ibig sabihin.. ganun ka tight ang connection! If you think small minds lang kami because of our lifestylem, naku mali kayo jan! Mga dean’s lister rin kami! full compensated ang leisure and workload sa school! Mga multitasker kami eh.. oh dba?🙂 We have been from happiness to lungkot.. Di lahat ng friendships perfect and marami na ring tampuhan, dramahan ang na share namin.. may mga crayola moments pa pero na keri namin lagpasan lahat. Pero majority are all fun, insane and extremely good memories to keep! Mahiya rin si Webster kasi di ko ma express ang gratitude ko sa kanila! AZ IN!! Buti naman at mahaba pasensya nila sa akin. haha! Super miss at love ko mga babaeng toh! As what Carrie Bradshaw had said, “MAYBE OUR GIRLFRIENDS ARE OUR SOULMATES AND GUYS ARE JUST PEOPLE TO HAVE FUN WITH”.

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Aba! Napadami posts ko! haha! naaliw ako. haha! Di man kami ganito ka tight as we speak since marami na ring nagbago pero I will always be grateful for them. They are part of my being… kung sa recipe pa ng isang food, sila ang mga secret ingredients doon! They added spice to V! cheers to my girls!🙂❤

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“True friends are families which you can select.”
― Audrey Hepburn

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Beshies Fran and Resci

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Besh Sam

And now presenting my Mutya friendships! Eto naman na side ng friendships ko ang mahilig sa mga promo at avail! haha! Naku aminin nyo yan girls nag enjoy tayo sa mga ganap! Kiddin’ aside, kami yung mga RAKET GIRLS! Aside from having fun and enjoying what we do like attending events and shows, hosting, promoting the Davao tourism and uplifting women empowerment, we earn at the same time! So win-win situation kami. Eto yung pag nag get together kami ng mga baklang toh todo outfit at muk ap! Mahiya naman ako sa mga kagandahan nila at baka pag di ako nag-ayos magmukha akong chimi-aa or chimay! Since 2009 nung nanalo ako sa Mutya ng Davao till the next batch of Mutya’s emerged eh mega volt in ang peg kaya I was able to build friendships rin sa next batch.. Among the Mutya’s sila Resci, Fran and Sam mga pinakaclose ko! Naku kelangan pa ba i-elaborate ulet mga ganapchina namin?? They are also the few who will always leave a mark in my life. Hindi superficial ang friendship namin for we have been together sa mga personal ganap! Sila yung super warriors ko and sandalan. Alam ko na if may mang okray sa akin sila yung alam kong makikipag away for me and tested yun! Super lucky ko na nameet ko sila at nakasundo at despite the distance and events we managed to be TRUE FRIENDS! They are the ones who constantly never let me down in my life. And of course the rest of the Mutya’s are bongga rin! Di lang sila magaganda outside but inside as well. And wag ma intimidate sa kanila, mga bakla yan! retokada! choz! To my mutya friends, love ko kayo alam nyo yan!🙂

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Mutya ng Davao 2009 Batch

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And of course hindi lang naman sila ang dapat ma feature dito! Since di ko na ma sort and group ang mga susunod, gusto ko na malaman nila na love ko kayo lahat! Kung wala man pics niyo dito it doesn’t mean you are not special and important to me. To those people who are my ka-tsikahan, ka -beckies, ka -cocol, ka -chat, ka -text, ka-fb, ka-sun,ka-viber, ka voxer, ka whatsapp, ka tweet, ka-inuman, ka-sayawan, ka- gym, kakwentuhan, ka emotan, atbp alam niyo na thankful ako kay Bro kasi He blessed me too much with loving people! Thank You for the memories shared and to be created in the future! To more fun, laughter, tears and learning altogether! More friendships, more fun! LOVE KO KAYO! May God bless you guys! enjoy the photos!🙂

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About vanessaruthchan

Hard on the outside, soft and nurturing on the inside. Believes in one true God and having One True Love :) Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody. Witty and sparkly. Spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. Loves to be alone. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Believes in chance encounters and stolen moments.

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