“Never underestimate the importance of the beginning. Of anything. The beginning has seeds of everything else to come.” – Carolyn Coman.

Beginnings are powerful. Beginnings are defining. We always have that fear of beginnings for it is something that is new to us. But little do we know that beginnings leads us to our dreams, our passion, and our life worth. We should not be afraid of any door that opens in our lives for there is no such thing as a small beginning. Even if we just made our day to day decisions or just stepped out of our comfort zone… it’s still a step to a new direction… a new life path.

As we enter and explore our new beginnings, it is where we know what we are supposed to be doing on Earth, our true sense of living, our so called “calling”. I know it is not an easy pavement in knowing what we are supposed to do in our lives but in every single day that is handed out by God is a day that is to be cherished and to be grateful for. For in those days we slowly immerse ourselves to be one with the Universe.

In my journey of finding myself, these key points have always been my guide…

LOVE.  It is the most powerful thing in the world. Be selfless. Do all things whether small or big with utmost conviction. When you are still searching for it, be patient. When you have found it, treasure it. When you have lost it, then be thankful for it has taught you a lot of things. It never runs out, it is everywhere. You just got to know where to look. Don’t just open up your heart but your soul as well. You will know when you have found it, when you have inner peace despite the chaos all around you. Love others as how God love us.

Know and Love God. He is life’s only constant. He is our rock, our deliverer, our saviour. Know that the two powerful sentinels we constantly have is our FAITH and PRAYER. Never doubt what a prayer can do. We might not get the answers that we need right away but always believe that God listens and He answers in His Will, not ours. Always say a prayer not just in times of need and despair but also in times of joy and abundance. We must also know when to ask and when to be silent and just listen. He knows what we need even before we ask for it. He created us so He knows the life we will have. It’s a matter of handing out the pen to Him and let Him write our life story. Surrender to His Will and we will be blessed for always. Let’s be still and know God is above everything else.

 Family.  The true essence of our Earthly identity. Our building blocks. The next priority to God. We should always be proud of our family for whatever happens there are the ones who will always be there for us. They will always be a part of our being. We are what we are because of them. They love us unconditionally and are the ones who support us despite our failures, mistakes and undertakings. As we start a family on our own, for sure we will still go back to the people who were there for us in the beginning.

Giving Thanks.  Every day and always, never fail. Feeling and thinking grateful is the key to a long lasting vibrant life. Amidst the life struggles that we have experienced and have to experience, we should never fail to give thanks. It is being grateful for the simple things is one of the deepest expressions of gratitude and it is like a magnetic golden thread attached in our being, when we say and act on it, it becomes more vibrant and sparkly than ever before.

Forgiveness.  We must be quick to forgive. We need to forgive so we can be free and happy. When we forgive, we’re not doing it just for the other person, we’re doing it for our own good. It paves way for God to shower us with blessings and glory that we could not even imagine. Never allow resentment to take root in your soul, uproot those emotions by forgiving those who hurt us. Most importantly, we must always forgive ourselves. It’s okay to commit mistakes and fall sometimes. It’s the way of life. It may not be easy but it will be worth it, you’ll see.

Believe.  Think BIG. Think increase. Think abundance. We always have ourselves whether we like it or not at the beginning and in the end. We are our own hero most times so we have to truly love ourselves so we can love others. We should always trust our intuition, for our first instincts are usually right. Believing in ourselves will get us to where ever it is that we wanted to become.

Respect and love yourself. Never settle for less than what you know you are worth. Always surround yourself with positive and loving people. Fill yourself with joy and act up on it. Let the people in your life either take you as you ARE — or watch you as you GO. Life is too short to waste precious time pretending to be someone you’re not. When there is self respect, surely Love and everything follows.

Fear.  It is okay to be scared sometimes. What wonderful thing didn’t start out scary right?.  Everything that matters and that moves our life forward has the power to change our life, and is at least a little scary. There will be times than we want to go back but it is when you question “life”, this is how you know you are doing something worthwhile. On the other side of the scariest chance you’ll ever take is the biggest masterpiece you’ll ever make.

Success. You can only define your own success. Do not do what is just good but also what is right. Enjoy the labor of your hard work but never forget to share them. Blessings triple when we share it with the people who truly need it the most. Never let it get too much of you either. There is no real measurement of success in this world so be grateful for the goodness God has given you.

Friends. We may not choose the family we have but we can certainly choose our friends. Be with people who are supportive and positive. The company that we keep along the way defines the way our lives will turn out. The more you hang out and treasure people who are not toxic; you’ll live a life full of laughter and love. Don’t cling as well for people come and go in our lives. They come into our lives for a reason, a season and a lifetime. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Romantic relationships. God calls us to live spectacular outstanding, powerful, victorious lives. Part of loving a glorious life is finding a glorious life partner. And part of trusting God is trusting that He has that partner already picked out for you. Never settle and rush. Find a partner who accepts your past, support your present, and love you too much to encourage you to grow, who won’t cling to you, who will let you go into the world, and trust that you will come back. Watch what your partner does than the words they utter. Never uphold your morals and values for a great partner will respect those in you. It’s tempting to lose heart on this crazy journey of single life but always remember that Happily Ever After tends to take place on the last page. And when you hand God the pen to your life, He will write an infinitely beautiful LOVE story than you could ever imagine.

Now, take a look at your own life for clues about to where you belong and who you are meant to be.  Often the key to figuring out who you are is as simple as figuring out what you LOVE. Your heart already knows. You may not see yet the results of it yet in your life but if you keep following your heart’s desire and listening to what your life is telling, you’ll get there. It might take a little while. It might not happen right away. You might have some business to finish and some obstacles to overcome and some growing up to do, but you’ll get there eventually. How do I know this? Because I did and still working on it. 




Inspired by true events.


About vanessaruthchan

Hard on the outside, soft and nurturing on the inside. Believes in one true God and having One True Love :) Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody. Witty and sparkly. Spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. Loves to be alone. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Believes in chance encounters and stolen moments.

Posted on October 11, 2013, in INSPIRING, LIFE LESSONS, PERSONAL and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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